why I often try to date coworkers

Folks generally consider it a bad idea to date coworkers. But I have a specific reason why I support the idea:


Here is the thing: Dating while trans is difficult—and dangerous. Transgender women often become death statistics. Therefore meeting in person with a stranger whom I first met online scares the shit out of me.

By contrast, established rapport with a coworker makes me feel safe. I don’t worry about murder on a first date.

a derby hat and a sex offer
two years and tremendous gratitude

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