poise, leadership, and mindfulness

I think a lot about poise: How to cultivate it, how to maintain it, what it means. I also think (and write) much about leadership. Concluded that the two overlap substantially. Further concluded that mindfulness forms the glue that holds them together. Please permit me to elaborate: Recently I developed my own description of poise […]

working out my concept of “lady” (part 2: my revolutionary demand)

I’m developing a vision of what “being a lady” means to me (and only me!), with the full intent to live it out boldly and dramatically for the rest of my life. Notice I said “lady” here, not “woman”. I feel I have to constantly remind people that these are different concepts. As I’ve stated […]

corset training

I started corset training yesterday. Never wore one before but decided to start. I’m going fulltime with it, for a variety of reasons: The prime reason is to share solidarity with women of class going back several centuries. I want to experience the waist training they endured. I want to more completely identify with them. […]

“evaluation” and response

A mentor and absolutely wonderful friend of mine provided the following unsolicited, and difficult, “evaluation” of my transition. It is extremely welcome. I respond below. Evaluation METHOD ACTING… “Wearing your heart on your sleeve” Smiling when greeting people with the body language representing comfort and happiness represent a ‘warm and healthy attitude’… “What ever others think […]

using video to help feminize my walk, posture, voice, and body language (part 1)

I bought a video camera today so that I may film myself walking to see how better I can feminize how I carry myself. I’m looking to project poise and feminine power, of course, and to deliver a sexy strut! Using the camera will also help me work on posture, correct sitting, and giving presentations […]