corset training

I started corset training yesterday. Never wore one before but decided to start. I’m going fulltime with it, for a variety of reasons: The prime reason is to share solidarity with women of class going back several centuries. I want to experience the waist training they endured. I want to more completely identify with them. […]

“evaluation” and response

A mentor and absolutely wonderful friend of mine provided the following unsolicited, and difficult, “evaluation” of my transition. It is extremely welcome. I respond below. Evaluation METHOD ACTING… “Wearing your heart on your sleeve” Smiling when greeting people with the body language representing comfort and happiness represent a ‘warm and healthy attitude’… “What ever others think […]

working out my concept of “lady” (part 1)

Even young maids should study this Kama Sutra along with its arts and sciences before marriage, and after it they should continue to do so with the consent of their husbands. – Kama Sutra of Vātsyāyana I’m fascinated by the concept of becoming a “lady”. Note that I am not using the term “woman” here; I […]

using video to help feminize my walk, posture, voice, and body language (part 1)

I bought a video camera today so that I may film myself walking to see how better I can feminize how I carry myself. I’m looking to project poise and feminine power, of course, and to deliver a sexy strut! Using the camera will also help me work on posture, correct sitting, and giving presentations […]

ladylike behavior: things I’ve been doing “wrong” (part 1)

I’m not sure how much of a “lady” I want to be, and I haven’t fully defined the term for myself. However, I’ve been learning the part according to others’ descriptions. (Note that I’m using the word “lady” and not “woman” here). Things I’m probably not going to change: I like to use foul language. […]